We've gone to China to pick up our daughter! Now the adventure continues in Minnesota - and beyond!
Showing posts with label birth culture. Show all posts
Showing posts with label birth culture. Show all posts
Friday, December 6, 2013
Sunday, November 17, 2013
Using her language skills at the Minneapolis Institute of Arts
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| Ceramic figurines of a wedding party, as gifts to that wedding party, over a thousand years old. |
Outside of how amazing the artworks are in their own regard, we particularly appreciate the MIA for helping us present and talk about Wynn's birth culture in a wonderful way. If we lived anywhere else in the U.S. we simply couldn't do this.
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art,
birth culture,
Chinese language,
culture,
family walk,
Mandarin,
Minneapolis,
museum
Sunday, April 14, 2013
"A Passage to China" at the Mall of America
For six years now in April, the Mall of America in Bloomington, MN has hosted "A Passage to China," a 2-day festival put on by Minnesota's Chinese Heritage Foundation and local newspaper China Insight. This year's festival involved over 45 organizations & businesses - some there to sell merchandise, others to talk about programs they put on, and others to grow membership.
There were demonstrations of cooking, dance, martial arts, singing, painting, calligraphy, and many other crafts - kids received a "passport" and would get a stamp at each booth they visited, then redeem the stamps for a necklace or bracelet.
It was great to see so many Asian faces and hear so much Mandarin in one place here in Minnesota - and it was heartening to see so many non-Asian faces watching the performances with interest and walking through the booths with their kids!
Wynn had a fine time, of course. Now that she's a little bit older and able to speak in Chinese for herself, she got a lot more out of this year's presentation:
There were demonstrations of cooking, dance, martial arts, singing, painting, calligraphy, and many other crafts - kids received a "passport" and would get a stamp at each booth they visited, then redeem the stamps for a necklace or bracelet.
It was great to see so many Asian faces and hear so much Mandarin in one place here in Minnesota - and it was heartening to see so many non-Asian faces watching the performances with interest and walking through the booths with their kids!
Wynn had a fine time, of course. Now that she's a little bit older and able to speak in Chinese for herself, she got a lot more out of this year's presentation:
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| Having the Starbucks in the background makes it more authentically Chinese ;) |
| Moulding-your-own Terracotta Warriors |
| Little Warriors for sale... we're holding out to get a life-size one for the garden in the backyard |
| We stayed for a number of vocal performances and dance numbers |
| Paper-cutting, a traditional folk craft from Shaanxi province - it can get amazingly intricate. (She did not pay any attention to the American Girl shop just beyond :) ) |
Tuesday, October 16, 2012
Book recommendation: Home is a Roof Over a Pig
I recently finished reading an interesting new book, Home is a Roof Over a Pig, by Aminta Arrington. She's also a blogger, a teacher, and an adoptive parent of a girl from China.
Instead of raising her youngest child through a "normal American life", however, she and her husband and their other two school-age siblings moved to China not long after the adoption. It's an interesting twist on addressing the desire by adoptive parents to not let a child's birth culture slip away, and pretty gutsy. The book is a fascinating read - I've posted a full review at weninchina.com - and do recommend it especially for other families who are in the China adoption track.
Will we eventually move overseas? Wynn's in a great school, and is getting lots of Chinese acculturation there. (She doesn't even notice anymore when we're around Chinese families speaking Mandarin in places like IKEA ... it's completely normal to her. Also, this happens a lot more now that we're living in the city...) But, Yinghua only goes to 8th grade. And Ann and I may want to do new things with our careers, too. (And jinkies, we just moved into this new house!) So, not today and not for a while. But it may happen, and this book gives us some insights into what that kind of transition might look like.
Instead of raising her youngest child through a "normal American life", however, she and her husband and their other two school-age siblings moved to China not long after the adoption. It's an interesting twist on addressing the desire by adoptive parents to not let a child's birth culture slip away, and pretty gutsy. The book is a fascinating read - I've posted a full review at weninchina.com - and do recommend it especially for other families who are in the China adoption track.
Will we eventually move overseas? Wynn's in a great school, and is getting lots of Chinese acculturation there. (She doesn't even notice anymore when we're around Chinese families speaking Mandarin in places like IKEA ... it's completely normal to her. Also, this happens a lot more now that we're living in the city...) But, Yinghua only goes to 8th grade. And Ann and I may want to do new things with our careers, too. (And jinkies, we just moved into this new house!) So, not today and not for a while. But it may happen, and this book gives us some insights into what that kind of transition might look like.
Labels:
adoption,
birth culture,
china,
first grade,
kindergarten,
parent resources
Sunday, February 28, 2010
Happy Chinese New Year!
Year of the Tiger, of course
The full moon tonight marks the Lantern Festival and end to the 15-day Chinese New Year holiday season. This year, Wynn celebrated with a couple different activities.
Last weekend, I took Wynn to Como Zoo. She specifically wanted to see the tiger (that's him in the first photo) and we wished him a Happy New Year. We also checked out the tropical plants in the Conservatory, noting which kinds grew in China; looked at the golden carp and talked about why they're considered lucky; and shared some stories about when we came to adopt her.
Quite a few other Asian families were at the zoo, too, doing the same things we were. I worry sometimes that we're not giving her enough exposure to her birth culture, but over the past two weeks of watching what other families are doing and seeing how Wynn interacts with other kids - Asian and everyone else - it feels like we're doing a good job.
A week ago Monday, we got together with the other family who traveled with us in Guangxi province, another family from our trip who went through Anhui province, and a third family who adopted through Sichuan last year. The kids colored dragons, listened to stories, and we all had a fine feast.

The Guangxi Girls - Wynn and Jenna - masters of The Force! Jenna is about a half-year older than Wynn. They both enjoy being in charge - they know the family routines; the rules of the games; what the pets should be doing; where we should sit. No need for whining or temper, as Guangxi Girls know how to get their point across matter-of-factly, using just enough charm or cool logic to convince you.
Labels:
adoption,
Anhui,
birth culture,
Chinese New Year,
families,
Guangxi,
lucky fish,
Tiger
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